One in eight struggle with infertility, and one in four have suffered pregnancy or infant loss according to the group Colorado Surrogates. This means there is likely someone in your circle struggling with one of these issues. We have all seen the jokes on social media about the baby boom expected in nine months due to the COVID-19 quarantine. With April Fools Day just around the corner, there are sure to be more jokes about being pregnant. For many of us, we need these laughs to keep our sanity during these stressful times. For others that are still healing, these jokes can be so painful. We have to remember not every one is ready to share in those laughs. Someone shared with me that these jokes are a painful reminder of what she/he will never experience. I think our response to these types of things depends on where we are in the healing process. However, this is a good reminder of something to think about should you have a friend experiencing something similar.